Who’s on a Daily Rollercoaster Ride?
I don’t think many of us will remember a time when our emotions and anxiety levels have been so up and down with no end in sight to what is causing it.
Whatever you’re feeling anxious about, whether that is fear of catching the virus, worry that family or friends may catch it, unemployment due to the virus or fear of a business collapsing, one negative thought leads to another and before you know it, you’re swirling down a ‘what if’ hole.
Anxiety is also contagious. How many times have you gone on social media recently and ended up feeling more anxious or panicked than before? This is because we see other people’s fears and add them to our own, giving us more reasons to feel anxious.
Trying to ignore anxiety and pretend it doesn’t exist tends to make it worse, as you’re dealing with fear with more fear. We have to recognise and acknowledge anxiety and we can then put into play strategies to help us deal with it. When you’re aware of something, you can do something about it — awareness is absolutely key!
The Science Bit So what actually causes anxiety? One of the crucial parts to dealing with anxiety is understanding exactly what it is. Anxiety can be defined as:”a feeling of worry, nervousness or unease, typically about an imminent event or something with an uncertain outcome”.
A part of our brain called the Prefrontal Cortex (often referred to as our ‘new brain’) is our analytical, practical thinking part of our brain but when we get stressed or worried and don’t have enough information about the future to plan, this part of our brain can go offline and our ‘old brain’ (whose purpose is survival) takes over. Our old brain is constantly on the look out for danger, threats to our lives and without the balance of the new brain to provide some analysis on suggested threats, we can spiral into anxiety.
So in order to deal with anxiety, we need to keep our new brain online. In the section below, you’ll find five strategies to help you do this.
Strategies We’ve all had a forced eviction from our normal daily lives and everything has been disrupted which can lead to more anxiety. By setting some good mental habits we can reduce the anxious feelings and thoughts.
1. Focus on what you can control A lack of control is often a trigger for anxiety, but even when everything feels outside of your control, there are still many things you can control in your life. Write a list of what you can control and what you can’t control. This helps you reclaim some power over your current situation. Examples might be:
Can control — the way I choose to react to the current situation, my hygiene by washing my hands regularly, what I decide to eat, if I get any exercise, what I talk about in front of my children.
Can’t control — the Coronavirus, other people’s behaviour, the weather, having to be in lockdown, the economy, no sport on TV.
2. Limit the amount of times you check the news/social media It’s very easy to spend hours glued to the constant news updates or scrolling mindlessly through social media. Apply the tips below to manage your usage:
✦ Limit yourself to twice or a maximum of three times per day for a news/social media fix.
✦ Try to avoid checking it first thing in the morning and last thing at night. Instead do something more productive first thing like a gratitude practice or journal which will put you in a far better frame of mind for the day. Checking the news just before you go to bed may dial up feelings of anxiety which can then affect your quality of sleep. Sleep is super important in keeping us healthy which is especially important at the moment.
✦ When you feel the need to do this, ask yourself ‘what do I really need right now?’. Quite often it’s connection, so go hug a family member in your bubble or a pet, or FaceTime or call a friend (only if you’re calm — you don’t want to spread panic!).
✦ When you do check the news or social media, ask yourself afterwards ‘Do I feel better?’ or ‘What benefit am I getting from this?’. We quickly get into a habit loop and by becoming aware of the lack of reward, it’s easier to break that habit.
3. Practice Mindfulness Mindfulness is a very popular word right now, but what actually does it mean. One definition by John Kabat-Zinn defines mindfu